well, if it makes you happy...

hi all.

i was feeling very hot just now and had a strong urge to blog to wake some twerps up, but after prayer, i felt much better, and well, only words that bring life, not destruction, shall be written. =)

alright, so i shall not talk too much la hor, just to clear up some misunderstanding. well, misunderstandings occur all the time, emotions get mixed in and soon we find that we do things that hurt people unintentionally. its alright, very natural, absolutely normal. no problem.

thing is, there should be kinda like a limit la, so that we do not exceed ppl's tolerence level, don't make things unpleasant right? i'm not saying that i have never angered anyone before la, but i try as far as possible not to. so if ppl tell u nicely, kindly heed the warning la. don't be so unfeeling, ppl usually look happy happy, no problem also have limit one la ok?

well, human nature is such that we are born self-centred, and think of ourselves ahead of others. again, completely ok, it is our nature. yes, it is very hard to be self-sacrificial, to think for others and to spare a thought. it is not easy, it is not easy. sometimes to gain acceptance from others, we unintentionally make use of a scapegoat. well..... yup so i guess we have to make an effort to not leech happiness from others to gain our own hp la...

so, the phrase "if it makes you happy..." is not something that makes me cool, makes me funny ok. it can be deciphered in two ways:

1) the good way. do whatever pleases you, it doesn't really bother me.
2) the bad way. you are being extremely selfish, would you pls stop gaining your own popularity/happiness at my expense, thank you very much!


ok, think whatever you like, nvm lor, as long as it makes you happy, i dont mind....



(haha confused? me too...)